Avoid Subtle Things Because They Will Definitely Ruin Your Relationship
1. Ego problem
Even the strongest relationship can’t survive if there’s ego problem. This ego problem can be shown in many ways but the most common form is not willing to apologize. You shouldn’t refuse to say sorry when you know it’s your problem. A simple sorry and mutual respect can fix the things in no time. If saying sorry is the hardest thing for you then let me tell you that this stubbornness can ruin everything.
2. Being sarcastic when your partner is already angry
People say sarcasm is the lowest form of wit. It definitely has less of humor and more elements of offending the other person. You can’t always use your sarcasm wherever you want, there is a right time and place and you should never ever give any sarcastic suggestion or answers when someone is genuinely angry about something. Using sarcasm during a fight is same as pouring gasoline on a house fire and calling the fire department afterward. So be careful and watch your tongue before making any comments.
3. Poor hygiene
As long as you are in a long distance relationship, it’s all good. But if you are staying with your partner then you might wanna change this habit. This is especially for guys as they have poor bathroom etiquette. It doesn’t have to be one of those weird relationships where you need everything to be perfect, but let’s try to keep it normal. Few things can be gross and it’s better to keep them personal.
4. Being manipulative
Nobody wants a manipulated answer, a relationship is all about trust and being honest with each other. If you feel that your partner is being manipulative and trying to bring about a personality change in you, it is your right to confront your partner.
5. Being selfish
When you put your needs first and ignore what your partner feels but he/ she is always concerned about you, be assured that this is going to ruin your relationship. Your partner may be cooperating with you for a long time but after being taken for granted, again and again, it will come to a point where they will be forced to quit because we all want equal attention from each other.
6. Being always on smartphone
A smartphone is the smartest device ever made to ruin a romantic dinner, a normal conversation and eventually a good relation. Scrolling up and down all the time on your phone will never lead to something good. Please do a favor to yourself and stop being available for everyone at the same time, always go with the priorities.
7. Hearing but not listening
All guys need to read it carefully, when your girl is talking about how good or bad her day was, don’t just pretend to listen but at least show some interest. A girl would never want to date a guy who has no interest in her personal life. Couples are all about being a sounding board for one another’s feels, respect that moment before it’s gone. Not listening, acting like you care are never a good sign, and these subtle things will definitely cost you a lot.
8. Mentioning of ex very often
Mentioning your ex in a conversation is never a good idea. Try to completely avoid this habit as it makes the other person feel that they are least wanted. And if you ever showed love towards your ex and mentioned his/her name with a big smile then you are just a few steps away from breaking up.
9. Communication gap
Are you guys not talking the way you used to? People say that you never run out of words when you talk to the person you love. Communication is the root and too much communication gap can even ruin a healthy relationship.
10. Criticism
You should know that complaining and criticizing are two different things. If you always criticize your partner and criticize the way they live, trust me these subtle things will definitely ruin your relationship.
