If you ever thought that men notice only a few things in a woman then you are totally mistaken.
Although men may not like to admit it, but they are a keen observant and there are many things that can turn him off. There are many things that can turn off your guy, and here we are listing some of these things which usually tops the list of all men.
1. Being Critical about Everything
Sure, the world isn’t perfect, and neither is the guy you’re dating, but try to focus on the positive. Constant complaining about things a guy does or where you end up for dinner will leave him with a negative view of being around you.
2. Giving Advice Instead of Listening
When a guy has a problem he wants to talk about, he really wants you to listen. Don’t be so quick to tell him what you would do – giving off the vibe that you’re better than him. Allow him the space to talk it through. If he wants advice, he’ll ask.
3. Wearing Your Pajamas All the Time
As nice as it is to be comfortable, guys love seeing you in your clothes and out of them. You don’t want to give off the lazy vibe by wearing your stained yoga pants every time you make dinner together or sit on the couch and watch Netflix.
4. Not Showering
It’s not that you stink, but guys love the way women smell after getting out of the shower and the way women look when they get ready for the day. Cleanliness is attractive to guys and sends a message that you take care of yourself.
5. Always Being the One to Initiate ѕєχ
Let’s be clear that it’s not all about ѕєχ , but it is one of those things guys love to talk about, and think about, constantly.
But, when you are always the one initiating it to keep him interested, it takes the excitement away. Take a few days off and let him pursue you.
6. Telling Long Stories without a Pause
Especially at the start of a relationship, it can be tempting to keep the conversation going by talking about every detail of a story. This one-sided conversation is a massive turn-off to guys. Your man might just start thinking about all the other things in his life while you’re going 90 mph.
7. Asking Too Many Questions
Don’t start drilling your guy about his day and everything he thinks about to show care and support. Insert yourself into the conversation and blend that with questions. It’s not all about him, and it’s not all about you.
8. Not Showing Interest in His Activities
Guys define themselves by what they like to do. Support this. If, let’s say your guy is into basketball and you’ve always hated team sports, you don’t have to tell him that every time he mentions it.
Grab a ball on a nice day and go down to the park; let him show you how to play and enjoy spending time together.
