“Daughter-in-law will remarry, I still want to live the comfortable days before“ “Sorry aunt, remarried“
Today’s story comes from the sharing of fan L.L.
The mother-in-law comes to live together after marriage .
L.L has a wealthy family,She is the only daughter in the family. Her parents loved her very much, and she did not live up to her parents’ expectations. During the college entrance examination, she was admitted to a prestigious university. After graduation, she entered a large company to work.
L.L met her husband S.J while she was working. S.J is a child from a rural background. He was from a poor family. He was admitted to university by he own efforts. After graduation, he stayed in the big city to work. Yang’s work ability is outstanding, L.L admires him very much, and gradually the two people feel good about each other, and they naturally come together.
L.L’s parents disagree with her daughter and S.J. In their opinion, it’s a good match for both men and women. However, S.J’s family is poor, and the gap with her own family is too big, and the two have grown up. Living environment is different, and living together in the future will definitely produce a lot of contradictions, but L.L feels that as long as two people love each other, all of these can be overcome, so she firmly wants to be with S.J and ignores her parents’ advice at all. .
When L.L and S.J got married, their parents gave a house and a car as dowry. Although they were not optimistic about the marriage, they did not want their daughter to be wronged. They moved after they got married. Entering L.L’s dowry room, it can be regarded as living a peaceful and happy life.
It didn’t take long for S.J’s father to pass away. The two hurried back to their hometown to deal with the affairs. After the father-in-law was settled, the mother-in-law’s whereabouts became a problem. S.J was unwilling to leave his mother alone in his hometown, so he discussed with L.L that he wanted to bring his mother to the city to live with them. L.L was actually unwilling to live with her elders. It’s very inconvenient. The two generations have different ways of thinking and living habits.Contradictions will definitely arise, but since S.J proposed it, she was too embarrassed to refuse, so she could only agree.
Although she is not willing to let her mother-in-law come to live with them, L.L is not a wicked wife. She arranged everything for her mother-in-law. She hopes her mother-in-law will live comfortably. The son now lives in such a comfortable house and drives the car to work every day. She is very happy and feels that his son is really promising. She doesn’t know that the house and car are both L.L’s dowry, but only thinks that these are her own sons. Earned hard.
Was troubled by her mother-in-law .
Seeing how happy her son is now, the mother-in-law is very proud of her. She feels that L.L can marry her son is her blessing, so she often instructs L.L to do this and that, without considering her at all I’m tired after a day’s work.
The mother-in-law thinks that L.L is not a virtuous daughter-in-law. She doesn’t cook well, the clothes are not clean, and the house is messy. She often criticizes L.L and said, “Why did my son marry a wife like you?” He worked so hard for a day of work. When he came back, he couldn’t even eat a smooth meal. The clothes were washed like that. How should he dress? Isn’t it embarrassing to wear it out? A wife like you has been divorced in our hometown.” Listen. With her mother-in-law’s words, L.L feels very uncomfortable. She has to go to work every day to make money. How can she have the time to take care of everything at home?
L.L complained to S.J that her mother-in-law always picked her own faults,After S.J heard this, instead of comforting L.L, he said to L.L: “My mother is an elder, and it is right for the elders to educate the younger generation. You can do what she says, don’t contradict her.” After hearing S.J’s words, L.L didn’t even think about it. I was happy and said to S.J: “When did I confront your mother? When she criticized me, I didn’t say a word. What do you want me to do?”
S.J said to L.L “I know that my mother is here to live. You are not happy, but children should be filial to their parents. My mother is old and I should provide her for the elderly. If you are not happy, there is nothing you can do.” L.L said, “I don’t want to let her. Your mother came here to live, but after she came, did I treat her badly? Can you think about it for me?” S.J said, “This is no way, whether you are happy or unhappy, just If you divorce you, I also need to support my mother.”
Listening to S.J’s words, L.L was shocked. She felt that there was no need for such a marriage to continue, so she decided to divorce. S.J wanted to scare L.L, but he didn’t expect L.L to file for a divorce with him. Naturally, he was unwilling to divorce. After the divorce, everything he had now was gone, but L.L’s attitude was very firm, and the two eventually divorced. .
After the divorce, the mother-in-law knew that the house and car were both L.L’s dowry, and there was no part of S.J. S.J moved out with her mother-in-law, and they rented a house in a remote community. The cost in the city is too great. Although S.J makes a lot of money, he still has to save some money.
Half a year later,The mother-in-law took the initiative to find L.L, and said to L.L: “My daughter-in-law will remarry, I still want to live the comfortable days before.” After listening to her mother-in-law’s words, L.L was really speechless. She said to her mother-in-law: “Sorry auntie, I have remarried. , My husband treats me very well, I am very happy now, please don’t bother me anymore.”
Shortly after divorcing S.J, under the introduction of her parents, L.L met her current husband and the two families also The husband doesn’t mind L.L’s marriage once. The two got married not long after they dated. After marriage, L.L feels that her parents are right. Only the right marriage can be happy. The gap between the two people. Too big is destined to grow old.
After hearing what L.L said, the mother-in-law really regretted that she shouldn’t make things difficult for her daughter-in-law, but the son lost everything, and she couldn’t live the comfortable life as before, but it was caused by them. , No wonder anyone.
People like S.J are typical people who don’t know the blessings in the blessing. They know that their family situation is not good, and they marry a good wife, but they don’t know how to cherish, tolerate their mothers to bully their wives, and even help. Mothers bullied their wives together. Such people do not deserve to live a happy life. They will eventually lose everything they have and be beaten back to their original form.
After a son marries a good wife, the mother-in-law must treat her daughter-in-law well. You love your son, so you will feel that what your son does is right at home. Parents’ baby, you should also see the advantages of your daughter-in-law. Although you cannot treat your daughter-in-law like a daughter, you can’t deliberately make things difficult for your daughter-in-law.Destroying the relationship between the son and the daughter-in-law is totally hurting the son.
Many couples divorced because of their mother-in-law, so mother-in-laws must not interfere with their son and daughter-in-law, nor should they live with their son and daughter-in-law. Your happiness is the most important thing. Don’t ruin your son’s happiness because of your own selfishness.
What do you think of what S.J and his mother did?