In a society where traditional standards typically define the trajectory of love relationships, Katey and Dan from Plymouth, both in their mid-20s, have bravely chosen a different path. Their narrative, which appears on Truly’s “Love Don’t Judge,” offers a fresh view on love and marriage, challenging society norms and accepting nontraditional relationships.
Katey and Dan met through mutual friends and began a six-year love relationship. Their relationship, however, took a unique turn when they chose to open themselves up to experiences other than monogamy. Their exploration of open partnerships began with honest discussions about their fantasies and wishes.
Their path into unorthodox love is now openly shared with the public, undaunted of the judgments and critiques that may come their way. They think that their partnership flourishes despite external demands and societal conventions that require traditional monogamy.
The couple’s unique attitude to love and marriage is highlighted in an episode of Truly’s “Love Don’t Judge.” In this episode, Katey and Dan talk openly about their experiences, including one particularly memorable occurrence from their wedding.
Katey and Dan’s wedding in Torquay, Devon, in September was an intimate affair that celebrated their love in a unique way. As part of their ongoing investigation into their own sexuality and needs, the couple brought one of Katey’s bridesmaids into their bedroom on the night of their wedding.
For many people, this decision may appear unexpected or unorthodox. Still, Katey and Dan saw it as an opportunity to further explore and embrace their bisexuality while having an intimate moment with someone they considered a close friend.
Reflecting on that extraordinary night, Katey remarked, “We ended up taking one of my girlfriends up to our bedroom. We had some drinks and ended up having a threesome with her, and it was really fun. She’s one of my best friends, so it was very comfortable.”
Dan added, “To do it on such a special day just makes it so memorable.” For this couple, their wedding night was an embodiment of their philosophy: to cherish love and embrace life’s experiences to the fullest.
However, this unconventional approach to love and relationships hasn’t come without its challenges. Katey has had to navigate strained relationships with her family, who were shocked and disapproving of her choices. They couldn’t comprehend the couple’s decision to invite others into their intimate life, and as a result, Katey’s family distanced themselves from her.
Katey admitted, “I think a lot of the judgment I received has been from my family. They disapproved of what I was doing, and they don’t really speak to me anymore because of it.”
Despite the hurdles and criticism they’ve received, Katey and Dan remain certain that their unorthodox love is beautiful and real. They’ve formed a support group of friends and like-minded people who accept them for who they are.
In the episode, the couple also reconnects with Kirsty and Tom, whom they first met while participating in Channel 4’s “Open House: The Great Sex Experiment.” Kirsty and Tom, like Katey and Dan, have embraced a non-traditional approach to love and relationships. Their friendships have flourished in a shared understanding of the importance of embracing one’s desires and exploring love in its many forms.
Reflecting on their unique friendships, Tom aptly summed it up: “It’s just a normal friendship, like any other friendship—even though we share wives and stuff.”
The world is full of diverse love stories, and Katey and Dan’s journey is just one example of how love can be a deeply personal and unconventional experience. As they challenge societal norms and openly share their story, they encourage others to embrace love in whatever form it takes and to live life authentically without fear of judgment.
