10 Signs Your Partner Wants to Spend Their Life With You
Falling in love feels amazing, but relationships are a lot of work. Especially when a relationship is new, many people often wonder whether or not it’s meant to last. Even the relationships that have lasted for quite some time can have the insecurities of whether or not the relationship is meant to last. Fortunately, many people show some kind of sign that they want to be with their partner forever. If you’re wondering about how long your relationship is going to last, look at these signs that your partner wants to be with you for as long as possible.
1. He likes being domestic with you
You might as well be living together, since you spend every weekend at his place (or your place). You have clothes, toothbrushes, and towels stashed away for sleepovers. He doesn’t really cook, but he gets jazzed to go grocery shopping together and make a meal with you.
2. He talks about living with you
If he’s shopping around for a place for the two of you to live together, he likely has the intention of staying with you forever. If he is willing to give up a bachelor pad and bachelor lifestyle for you then, he is very serious about staying with you. If he is giving up a job, a former life with a previous wife or living with his children for you then that is a very serious statement about his desire to commit to you permanently.
3. He step forward after a fight.
They don’t sulk, stonewall, give you the silent treatment or wait for you to initiate putting things right. They will be open and willing to talking things through or sorting out a disagreement. They can make a genuine apology when it’s warranted. Hopefully you can too.
4. He values your opinion
They leave space for you to speak. They listen to you, or make a very good show of it. They make you feel like what you have to say is worth listening to. Or that you’re smart. Or funny. And when they’re struggling, they’ll ask you what you think because they rate your input..
5. His family loves you
Do not underestimate the importance of being loved by his family, especially if he is close to them. Their opinions matter, and if they love you, there is a higher chance that he will want to make you a part of the family. What the family thinks matters to a man. So if you got off on a bad start with them, go make amends now.
6. He shows you plenty of physical affection
He loves to hold your hand, hugs you and gives you back rubs – if needed. Attention is a kind of emotional currency and he is investing in your future by making sure that you feel loved enough to stay with him always. His logic is that if you feel good you won’t leave!
7. He still tries to surprise you
No one can be on romantic point all the time, but he’s at least trying to keep things interesting. He makes a point to bring home flowers or plan a date night because it’s important to him that you don’t settle into a groove.
8. He encourages your dreams.
The big ones. The little ones. Even the whacky ones. They’ll be in your corner and on your team. They want you to be and “do” you.
9. He trusts you completely
Whether it’s with his ATM card or with is heart, once a man fully trusts you, it is a clear indication that he sees himself potentially creating a future with you. Moreover, once he takes your thoughts and opinions seriously and confides in you no matter how embarrassing the problem, you can be sure that he values you being in his life and fully trusts that you will take care of him in every sense.
10. They are proud of you.
If they do only one thing on this list, it’s this one. If you know your partner is proud of you, wants to be seen with you, wants to introduce you, wants Other People to know they are with you, it’s a huge boost to your confidence. It also tells you where their heart is. It is the best evidence for what you have together: It’s gold.
