Here are the things men want to hear most from their other half.
“I’m proud of you”
For many men, their self-esteem is based on achievement. While women thrive on emotional connection, for many men, achievement is what makes them feel good about themselves. And they really feel great when others recognize their achievements.
One of the things a wife should never say to her husband is to criticize him for doing something poorly, especially when in fact he did quite well but just not the way you wanted.
“Thank you”
Saying thank you to your husband for helping you may seem like something you don’t need to do, because no one will thank you when you do it for them.
And your husband may not always do this or that for you the way you want. That makes you unhappy, so sometimes it’s hard to feel grateful.
However, it is very important to acknowledge and thank your husband for the things your husband does for you. Because everyone wants to be recognized for their efforts, even though that may not be exactly what you want.
So, the next time your husband takes care of the housework while you’re away, thank him. If your husband does something for you that you ask, thank him. If your husband listens to you and gives you a shoulder to cry on, thank him. If your husband gives you a birthday gift, thank him, even if you don’t like the gift.
“I love you”
Many couples stop saying “I love you/I love you” after getting married. Not because they no longer love each other, but because they take it for granted.
You may think that you don’t need to say anything, the other person already knows. But that would be a mistake.
If you don’t want your marriage to fail, make an effort to tell your husband that you love him. Actions are important but so are words. Therefore, this is a saying your husband needs to hear often.
“I believe you can do it”
Show your man that you believe in them and their dreams. Tell him that he will achieve any goal that he always ponders and thinks about.
Help men understand that they are special and have the necessary qualities and resources to achieve their goals. And every man will feel happy and reassured when he always has his other half by his side to support and encourage him.
“I’ll always be here for him”
After a hard day’s work, what men need is comfort. You need to assure him that no matter what, you will always be there for him.
If things are not going well with him, learn to listen and help him through any difficult situations. This will keep him yearning to come home to you and be with you.
